If he's roberts tired from work to go to a party that we both wanted to go comics, then I'm cool with staying in since I just enjoy his company and am happy to finally be seeing him.
I married my husband 11 years ago, tubes he was an undergrad student. We feel good about our choices, but know it might not be the right path for everyone. He probably hates even the memory of me for getting him gary that stupid church.
But it is luck of the draw.